Here is a perfect example of Venus and Mars.
The scene: getting ready to go out to dinner, each person in the duo getting dressed and generally trying to look good.
Me: Does my hair look OK? (Translation: all I want to hear is "yes, great")
Him: Well, I think that you should decide whether it should be long or short, right now it's in between. You should just make a decision. Your roots are showing a bit, but not too bad and if you fluff it up you hide that, but I like the highlights that you did.
Question: Does this happen in your house?